Friday, December 30, 2011

People always pay more attention to their own problems and interest


Since the ancient times "something to do in that it" is the way of governing the Kings, and now, it has already developed into enterprise management of way, be a man with success. Something to do is give up, give up some thoughts and behavior, to make another choice. In the workplace, a lot of things is not for, offside is one of them.




A of listening is very easy to, are also more likely to welcome, because the listener in the listener's eyes see the respect, they like more things out and listener to share.
To listen to others speak, we give to others is the most effective praise, whatever the speaker's boss, colleagues, subordinates, or customers, or others, listener can make people feel heart to speak and relaxed. 




People always pay more attention to their own problems and interest, if someone is willing to listen to them to talk about, Offside, just as its name implies, is do not belong to us ZeQuan range of things.
There are three commonly; One is the subordinate to the boss a; Another is flat offside, or between level colleagues offside; The third case is boss arm too long, control to flourishing, as the subordinate "guangxu", want to hearing administered. Three of the cause of the offside will discontent, can damage the workplace relationships.


When the boss a subordinate, will make produce not be respected, boss authority infringed feeling. In order to defend his own authority, he in the later work the inevitable everywhere and all the attention in the alert to guard against and restricting us, and this is for us your relationship with your supervisor is buried the hidden trouble.
In addition, our offside behavior in time if not stop, then it will cause the other colleagues to follow suit, so that way, not only not normal exercise right boss, lead to management confusion, can also cause a colleague more disgusted.





For example, across the limits of authority, to deal with customers and so on, it will not only make our boss embarrassing, still can let our colleagues bad negotiations with their customers, because if the customers with our colleagues know customer's trading price, will also be able to present the same requirements.





Thursday, December 29, 2011

Say it is different

Zero distance of contact, I believe, snow, and at the same time, a wonderful thing of dust removing impurity. Effectively change 0 to rectify the DongChe, the only into parts.
Look at the palm of the snow and quiet, quiet on smiling at left, and infiltration land, has penetrated into the heart.



The cold wind blow up, the reality of snow still in high house established between floor drop, hand, want to find it most beautiful clips, results, but not perceive for a long time. May be they are getting too much burden, but always wandering in the ideal and the reality of the edge.



Although winter don't want to the arrival of the snow, but finally gave belongs to the winter snow of the stage, because winter snow is already know that part of the winter.
The snow in the stage of all asperses, snow in winter to display their attitude, his ability to prove it coming winter to add some more winter breath, no waste to its winter stage · · ·




In fact winter don't understand the snow, winter only know the snow will appear regularly, but winter don't know the meaning of the snow appear, only to see the snow in winter to it on the stage of the dancing posture, winter can never know the snow in the feeling of the ground, it is like the cold of winter snow don't know don't need it's foil, no snow of winter still cold · · 


This row house particularly eye-catching said, because this is nine teams family room, unique red brick building, all the rest is built with adobe and yellow; Say it is different, but also because it away from residential areas, and DuiBu office, tractor hangar into a word is arranged, the distant vision flowers and plants is gorgeous, form a beautiful unique landscape; 




Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Listen to a song

Listen to a song of unruffled silk, taste of quietly elegant of green tea. From the bottom of a congested streams from attachment, flows through the waters of the south, to see the busy yushu, little bridge the somebody else, to see the drizzle bound willow leaf, the wind out of bamboo. 



In between the splash-ink landscape, face breeze and stand, tap dance garments, just as if the confines of the open mind, let it overflow to the outside. Then, a head of skewed into the deepest part of the YanYu, drunk into the most the most fans who stance.



Pillow the spring breeze of green LiuAn, smell the breath of clove, lightly stroking the fiercely XingHuaYu, with the wind of the south into the wet. On that just to hold my light series of model tail, listen to the farther and nearer and period of sound...
That night, the balcony crescent son particularly clear, without a cloud. Before you know it, "house night listening to a spring rain, the Ming dynasty deep sell almond flowers" verse and the unrecoginized heart, XinJian place, a little pain. 





Like a knife sharp knife, break glove, half jiangbei, half jiangnan, want to close for a place has could not, and never is thick sky and home. The YanYu, like a demon, softly to come up, will I cast into the soul of the heavy and protrude the dreamland, let me there, looking for a place xanadu. Lost ah, lost it.



Sense of wind, from unknown place in blown out of the window, as if the soul who summons, seems to take away all around you. Left alone, I in the dark of the night. In fact, in retrospect, the life I have received? Smiled calmly, actually had the bleak I never changes what, just in the emotional world, add a another story. A happy, also have sorrow.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Pretty sunglasses

Read how many poetry, seen as many jiangnan articles in singing the YanYu, praise the beauty and boast the lingering, love the affectionate, love its close. With an umbrella stand in the rain, looking at the willows stupid fan fan on both sides, looking at the smoke distance, hate can't fly away.
The general, and have been swaying the depths of the memory, NiaoNa out of a sweet smell wage-earners. As the breath of soft silk, embroidered with lingering light sorrow meaning.


Is that, by boat beetles foreseen the lotus lines of mining, fine fine meal refers to the OS, left, and right of element of mining, the water tender yellow, green lotus seed like water?
Find the jiangnan, unsanitary environment, imperceptible to the love, the stone of special privilege to agreement. But, when can I settled in the jiangnan rain, secure a watch over the years, that is how gratifying...




                                  Carrots, green vegetables, and that has grown a section of the green seedling of rape, was covered with frost, lower down. Some thin thin strip of cany grass, and a layer of frost, like silver hair root as well as surrounding, make me can't help hand picked a root to watch, and appreciate, play.


Temperature was cold, his mouth out some heat, hand a bit cold, look for a moment, and cast, heavy goes back pocket, along the rural road continued on. See several small fish pool, the rising water mist, don't know who house of some ducks have no fear is so early in the cold water swim to swim. 




I think the bird afraid of the cold also the hide it, imagination is one "the bird flew away, thousands upon RenZong diameter destroyed" field of vision. In the reality but no, only hear the roadside many strains many little bird in the tree JiuJiu to shout, like in to sing and talk to each other as in, I can't help but take out a cellular phone, recorded the song this winter, took a winter here and the village common experience picture.




Monday, December 26, 2011

I really grown up

"Not, I wait for you order problem while back: one, that the shore for a wave of feeling words; why write, how the wrong; and I alone have the understanding of the life of you... I ChunLei, to remind who you love." 





  • The familiar melody in the ear again remind of, move in my heart, and now, heartbeat is so amazing melody and the consistent, but I fuzzy the thinking is gradually clear up. So the heart can't help dancing, on paper the spectrum lovely noteHave a meal, was alone for a walk in the playground, than the others, I look is quite isolated. 



    Looking at other people so happy, heart the longing for love more and more intense, but in virtually heart is always in contradiction conflict, so, so had been walking, looking at the dark night. Don't want to think of forgotten love.



    Don't know why today's night but no previous cold and dreary, leisurely I still go, far away in the electronic screens in video screen, beautiful and moving, don't know is that I love the vision of the future.
    The distant lights sends out a faint glow, although looked, but still give winter air increase little warm. And the sorrow of heart also slowly disperse.



    Reality? This is hard to come to, I don't know that they will later become what kind of person, but will always easier to do myself, my future-have no clear goals, maybe one day really disillusioned, will get really let go, always thought that.
    I really grown up, but their will find yourself will be sentimentally attached to the house bed, will steal the tears, just not himself again manacle.
    I understand their pursuit, reaching for the stars, not will get it, but not dirty his hands, then the shore and taking his horse, his youth, his "waste", not a means to pursue that distance, the drawer is yellow diary, found the memories of the past.
    I will not turn back, the memory of the past thing... Many years later, I don't know, what not understand love, or do not know how to express love. Her angry at me, spit out a word: "say!"


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