Since the ancient times "something to do in that it" is the way of governing the Kings, and now, it has already developed into enterprise management of way, be a man with success. Something to do is give up, give up some thoughts and behavior, to make another choice. In the workplace, a lot of things is not for, offside is one of them.
A of listening is very easy to, are also more likely to welcome, because the listener in the listener's eyes see the respect, they like more things out and listener to share.
To listen to others speak, we give to others is the most effective praise, whatever the speaker's boss, colleagues, subordinates, or customers, or others, listener can make people feel heart to speak and relaxed.
People always pay more attention to their own problems and interest, if someone is willing to listen to them to talk about, Offside, just as its name implies, is do not belong to us ZeQuan range of things.
There are three commonly; One is the subordinate to the boss a; Another is flat offside, or between level colleagues offside; The third case is boss arm too long, control to flourishing, as the subordinate "guangxu", want to hearing administered. Three of the cause of the offside will discontent, can damage the workplace relationships.
When the boss a subordinate, will make produce not be respected, boss authority infringed feeling. In order to defend his own authority, he in the later work the inevitable everywhere and all the attention in the alert to guard against and restricting us, and this is for us your relationship with your supervisor is buried the hidden trouble.
In addition, our offside behavior in time if not stop, then it will cause the other colleagues to follow suit, so that way, not only not normal exercise right boss, lead to management confusion, can also cause a colleague more disgusted.
For example, across the limits of authority, to deal with customers and so on, it will not only make our boss embarrassing, still can let our colleagues bad negotiations with their customers, because if the customers with our colleagues know customer's trading price, will also be able to present the same requirements.