Success in today's society is the most important factor to? Is the background, environment, relations, opportunities and other external factors, or talent, and the power, and the personal effort, persistence and other internal factors?
Believed to see Marx materialist dialectics external cause point of view about the person many, but the real cause of the development of the recognition that decision conditions, success is its own people and not that many.
Many people are accustomed to the following logic: when success will assume that when internal cause the most important success to itself, will the talent, the ability, the efforts and other internal factors.
And when it failed in the external cause is more important, tend to think that will be the reason for failure to others or environment, and external factors.
But in the evaluation of the success of others or fail, attitude, when others just completely opposite success will want to think when external cause is most important, will success to luck, others opportunity other external factors.
And in others failed when it is more important to the internal cause tend to think that, will be the reason for failure to our own ability to lacking, the talent such as stupid internal factors.
Although above logic is not without any desirable place, but it can protect our self-esteem, can make we can freely to deal with difficult, over the difficulties. But its negative influence also nots allow to ignore.
It not only make people can't see themselves, an objective evaluation of the right of others, the more easy to form with pride, often for excuses for failure and other adverse conditions.
Mongolian cow cow said: "many for find a successful way, little find excuses for failure". Bestseller, "the without excuse" is open ZongMing is useful to point out: "no excuse".
Therefore, we have reasons to believe that internal factors is decided to a person in the success or failure of the most crucial factors. So, the talent, the intelligence and knowledge, skill, ability and perseverance and other internal factors of success factors make the most important?
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