As long as they spend money, not can please to a large number of than our cattle more people, why also find us, no, unreliable? No play... So the opportunity that the passage of one by one.
In here, I thought of a "frog" the inside of the pan of the story: a frog, fell on a cold oil inside, he is happy to: here is all his place, he is free and unfettered, don't want to jump out to adapt to the new environment.
Later the pan slowly beginning to heating, the frog feel more comfortable, as if in general bubble bath. So the frog so enjoy. Later, the frog found was wrong: oil is very hot. He want to jump out, but has been unable to move his arms and legs-in imperceptible in has been slowly cooked.
And when it failed in the external cause is more important, tend to think that will be the reason for failure to others or environment, and external factors.
But in the evaluation of the success of others or fail, attitude, when others just completely opposite success will want to think when external cause is most important, will success to luck, others opportunity other external factors.
And in others failed when it is more important to the internal cause tend to think that, will be the reason for failure to our own ability to lacking, the talent such as stupid internal factors.
Although above logic is not without any desirable place, but it can protect our self-esteem, can make we can freely to deal with difficult, over the difficulties. But its negative influence also nots allow to ignore.
It not only make people can't see themselves, an objective evaluation of the right of others, the more easy to form with pride, often for excuses for failure and other adverse conditions.
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