Sunday, October 23, 2011

If a child does not build self-esteem

Parents must first believe that their children can be independent, and at the same time in life to create all sorts of conditions for kids to found his own ability. You can make a small, easy to achieve the objectives, let the child in the successful experience of the joy of feel independent.







Independent behavior from independent thought, the child's idea and parents don't at the same time, parents don't rush to deny their idea, but to ask them why they think so. Listen to their statements, let the child independent expressed their opinions.
When a child begins to respect yourself, consider yourself and others as equals to respect, the child's main body personality is built up. Self-esteem is the backbone of children spirit personality.

Should say, self-esteem is child's life of the fire, is the child grow the origin. Pride not established, it is equal to the child the fire of life not lit, therefore, he won't has long power.
Establish the child's pride is best way to respect the child, the child as a fully equal and his people to treat. When parents respect child, he began to respect yourself, then he will respect others.
So his "humanizing" process to start. Establish the child's pride the second important method is unconditionally love children. When parents love child, the child's self value will rise, he began to feel good, and then will produce seek better power.

If a child does not build self-esteem, he didn't care how others see him, he doesn't know how to go to see the look in the eyes of others, he will not go to study with the behavior of those rules, he also will not looking for someone to respect and recognition, which also was done not have the desire to do better.



 Then through criticism to education child is of no significance. Because he doesn't care about your opinions, your criticism to he doesn't work. No self-respect children can't active participation in group activities, don't respect others, don't respect yourself, not in a population in extraordinary desire.





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